Monday, September 12, 2011

Teaser and a chuckle ,lol....I'm too much to handle !

Hi all,
I am really having a good old chuckle since last night. I put up a comment on Facebook which said :Any man can put out the effort to get you interested,but it takes a special guy to keep a woman interested!
Oh my God ! Did I open a can of worms there , or what? It was a lively discussion to say the least. One of the guys who had requested to get to know me  (a local from the town I live in) wrote : most normal women are married, its the stupid ones that are single.- Wrong thing to say ! Eddy answered : what would that make a guy not married then?And Pixie: I think someone reversed "normal" and "stupid" in his sentence.
I was sooo tickled by all this ! My final remark was :one more thought to that....if a guy isn't interesting enough it pays to stick the BOB ! 
In case you don't know what a BOB is ,lol- it stands for Battery operated boyfriend So we waited for a reply this morning which never came. Through my chats I knew this guy had some weird views, but I didn't think he would be that much of a coward to just delete me as a friend -damn, ruined all my fun,lol ! I love it when a guy suddenly realizes I really am more then he can handle ! Its funny how they disappear when they realize they are dealing with a strong independent girl and not some shy insecure woman they can walk all over on ! There's no messing about with me ,I know what I want and won't lower my standards !
And it makes me value and love my friends like Deb, Nikki, Pixie and Eddy so much more ! Yet again I have to say how grateful I am to Deb and Erik who helped me and boosted my self confidence after splitting up and divorce. Without them I wouldn't be the strong woman I am now. Eddy is tickled as much as I am by all this, we chatted about it already when I came home this morning before we went both to sleep. -And before anybody gets the wrong impression-no , he is not my boyfriend ! He is a very, very close friend I click really well with and I can't wait to meet him in person next year. He's seen me at my worst first thing in the morning with messy hair and without make-up , has put up with my whinges, has let me into his life as friend and comfort him when he was at his worst and down , and is totally honest -I would trust this guy in all ways ! A perfect friend. It really is a shame he lives so far away in Canada :-(  Seems to be my fate that the best ones always live far away.
Funny thing is that since then I am minus two people on my friends list....I have no idea who the other one is, but he must have not agreed with the comments either. No loss ,lol.
Hurrican Katia is creating very strong gusts of wind here , so far its still sunny though. I'm loving the weather right now, not too hot and I like the wind. 
Anyway, I have a teaser to show from the Halloween kit I am working on. Its coming along nicely. Here it is and a song Eddy dedicated to me - Thank you ,hun xxx :)-till next post
Hugs Snowy

1 comment:

smiekeltje said...

Oh boy, so early in the morning and you had me smile already! So I am supposed to be a "normal"women?? Just cbecause I am married??? Well, after living 15 years together first. LOL! I might be considered as a rather "normal"women, but I truly have some questionmarks to that ROFL!
Good thing the guy disappeared from your "friends"list. What a baby!!!
You know what is a BOB here? That's a guy or women, who doesn;t drink alcohol during a party or whatever and can drive everybody safely home LOL!
I should start on a Halloween kit now too, to have it ready in time.
May be I can start on it today.